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SUPPORT AUTONOMY, DON'T STEAL IT
Advice offered too soon can feel like control. Support others by honoring their autonomy, not overriding it.
Derek Hagen
9 hours ago3 min read
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GOOD LISTENING = CURIOSITY + RESTRAINT
Being a good listener isn’t about having the right answer—it’s about curiosity, patience, and knowing when to hold back.
Derek Hagen
Apr 172 min read
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RESIST THE URGE TO "FIX" THINGS
You don’t have to fix it. Listening with empathy builds connection and trust—and helps others find their own next step.
Derek Hagen
Apr 103 min read
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